Bullying is not something that happens today and tomorrow can easily be forgotten.
Being the victim of bullying leads to future emotional problems, regardless of the present pressures that other kids impose upon them.
Some of these problems are remarkable on their attitude of fear and anxiety. Kids that have been passing through this type of abuse think that school is an unsafe place to be and they hate it. Going to classes is a sacrifice for them and they are capable of inventing or using any excuse to justify missing school. The negative effects not only emotional but also academic these troubles that end in a lack of education for kids.
“Researchers from Finland discovered that victims are more likely than bullies to suffer from anxiety disorders, such as depression, separation anxiety, panic disorder, etc. Also, this psychological stress can cause victims' bodies to be less resistant to disease and infection, and therefore they may get sick more often.”
http://library.thinkquest.org/07aug/00117/bullyingconsequences.html
Most of the problematic adults suffered a kind of abuse during their childhood. Being problematic at their age is just a consequence of how they lived. Suffering the consequences is not an exclusive thing for victims; kids that bully others also tend to experience legal problems as adults.
“Some experts believe that school shootings are related to bullying. Students who committed school shootings were over two times as likely to have reported that they were victims of bullying”
http://library.thinkquest.org/07aug/00117/bullyingconsequences.html
Bullied kids have troubles establishing emotional and social relationships with others because they always feel bad, commonly this is caused by they low self-stem or also by the desire for revenge that they keep.
“Results from cross-sectional surveys suggest that being victimized by peers is significantly related to comparatively low levels of psychological well-being and social adjustment and to high levels of psychological distress and adverse physical health symptoms”
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/14631878
Conclusion
Bullying now is so common in schools, collages in any places with boys and girls. It is important to solve this problem that is affecting the children now and in a future. This bullying situation hurts people slowly but deeply. Damage from bullying makes social adjustment and good academic performance.
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I believe that I must take special care of each school bullies because they are practically which causes its victims enloquescan and then may become psychopathic or homicidal, and they can take revenge on the person who upset all his life at school and are often the worst and most bloody revenge, is important that parents take importance in their children's attitudes, that the directors of schools to more severe forms of punishment in order to reduce the bullies.
ReplyDeleteWhen a kids behavior is rare at school or in any other place, parents need to talk to them or to find out whats wrong with the kid.
ReplyDeleteSome children suffer in silence, because of bullying, and these kids are threatened in the way that if they go and gossip, the bully is going to hurt him.
A bully is a bully because in some cases they have problems and wants to get even with any person.
The any way to get rid of a bully is to accuse him with an authority, so the bully can get his punishment.
In addition to these information, the bullying problem is present in almost any place, is not exclusive of any sector of the community or with regard to the sex, though in the profile of the aggressor it appreciates predominance in the males. Neither difference regarding the victims exist.
ReplyDeleteThe aggressor harasses the victim this when only, in the baths, in the corridors, in the dining room, in the court. For this reason the teachers are often not informed of the problem.
Nevertheless it is not a question of a simple push or comment, it is a question of a situation that if it does not stop in time it can provoke severe emotional hurts in the victim.
If something really makes me sick is that kids that nothing have of superior to any other one, belived that they are and make them suffer.
ReplyDeletePhisycal consecuences maybe painfull bur psycological ones most of the time are permanent. Lack of security and the belivef that they are not good just because they are not like other people are just some of the consecuences.
In some cases this go to far that for the victimc see like the only way out,death.
I dont blame any person for beeing different, but i yes blame society anf massive medias for making society belivef that making other ones suffer would make them superior.
The values of society are restablish in school, and look waht we are doing.
The bullies are everywhere, leaving many victims behind what they see as a little joke can leave their victims marked for life causing low self-esteem to suicide, and this affects children psycologically.
ReplyDeleteand if this happens at home I can not imagine happening in the streets, in the dark alleys of the city where nobody can see what happens, this is a very serious addiction problems should be controlled.
Many children have been victims of bullying at least once in their life. One person might be victim of bullying at any age, it doesn't really matter. If you don't want that your kid suffer of this abuse, what yu have to do is talk with him or her, give them confidence and principally that they have trust on you. Generally, the children that are vistims of bullying keep quiet because they are scared.
ReplyDeleteI think that the problem, is not the bullies, but the bullied people. The problem is that these people believe what the bullies say about them, this reflects a serious problem of low self-steem.
ReplyDeleteThis low self-steem causes, that the bullied person would not have the ability to respond to this kind of harassment.
Although, sometimes the bullied person may become agressive and tries to do some crazy stuff to get rid of the bully.
We have this example from a boy from the soccer team of a private school from torreron, we all know what school i am referring, he was bullied to the point that he brought a knife to the school and attacked a bully.